What is VLM?

The Vincentian Lay Missionaries is an organization founded in 2005 by the Daughters of Charity. Our mission is to enmesh lay young adults in the ministry and service of St. Vincent de Paul by partnering with the global Vincentian Family - the Congregation of the Mission and the Daughters of Charity. Vincentians believe in creating lasting systemic change, living in solidarity with the people they serve, and promoting peace and dignity for all peoples.

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Welcome to my blog! My explanation for writing this starts with my very first post: The Journey Begins, Part 1.

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Vincentian in Spirit

As I rode the bus down to the Mission today, I saw a poster of Archbishop Oscar Romero that got me thinking.

Today marks the 31st anniversary of Romero's martyrdom - "The Bishop of the Poor". Like St. Vincent, Romero did not start out desiring to do great things or save a nation. He is even described as timid and ascetic in the years before he was ordained as a bishop. However, like Vincent, he had a conversion experience while being directly involved with the poor. After the brutal murder of one of his priests and two of the priest's parishioners, Romero saw the terror in the eyes of the poor and helpless flock. As with Vincent's conversion in hearing the confession of a dying poor man, Romero realized he was being called to help those no one else would help. He joined the poor in solidarity against the oppression of the government, and was persecuted and killed for doing so. The process for beatification and canonization is under way, and he was given the title Servant of God by Pope John Paul II.

What strikes me the most about these two men isn't their amazing successes, but their roots. We are all called to be saints - in our Christian baptism, we are called to be priest, prophet and king. How often do we really consider our role on the path to sainthood? Vincent became a priest to make money and help his family. He lived a very comfortable life as a family chaplain, until the day he encountered Jesus in a dying man. I wonder how many times I have encountered Jesus, without even taking the time to notice or care. I heard an amazing quote a while back that I would like to share with you:

"Our thoughts become our actions. Our actions become our habits. Our habits become who we are."

Today, on the anniversary of the death of Romero, Servant of God - I pray that all of us might be able to start the cycle with clear minds for God, so that our habits only stem from actions of love.

Saturday, March 19, 2011

Celebrations

This week had many important days in it - some famous, like St. Patrick's Day, some more obscure, like Pi Day (3.14...), and today, the Feast of St. Joseph - but one in particular was very dear to the Vincentian Family - the Feast of St. Louise de Marillac (March 15th).

St. Louise was St. Vincent's closest companion, and the two were long-time friends. Louise was Vincent's advisor on his many works with the Congregation of the Mission, and Vincent was her spiritual advisor. Together, they co-founded the Daughters of Charity. Now, this was no small feat - the Daughters of Charity were the first non-cloistered order of sisters, anywhere in the world. Their order was founded with the idea that women called to live in religious community could serve Jesus in the poor, not just in the chapel. She's a fascinating saint! If you would like to read more information on her life, I recommend starting with the Vincentian Family Website.

As the foundress of the Daughters of Charity, she is indirectly the foundress of VLM - as the Vincentian Lay Missionaries have stemmed from the Daughters of Charity. St. Louise de Marillac, pray for us!

And, speaking of websites, VLM has a wonderful new website! You can find information about the program, our ministries, online donations, and much more. Check us out!

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

New Every Morning!

In thinking about my life these last 10 months or so, a song came to mind called New Every Morning, based on Lamentations 3. The song has a bit of history for me, as it was part of the repertoire for my dad's music group in the late 90's/early 2000s. I sang the song for my first time ever in a recording studio!

God's great mercies are new every morning, so great is His faithfulness. How blessed we are that our slate of mistakes throughout the day can be wiped clean just like that! This idea of God's presence being constantly renewed, constantly new in my life, has taken on an even deeper meaning for me as of late. I feel like almost everything about my life has become "new" - I have a new name, a new family, a new home, a new roommate, new friends, new things, live in a new city I'd never been to - and all by the grace of God! While I never could have predicted where VLM 2008 would have taken me, I certainly wouldn't have pegged being Christine Jones, married to a devoutly Catholic computer programmer, living in San Francisco.

Ah, but that leads me to the end of "the beginning" - what happened after GVV?

Evan and I were happily wed the summer after the Gateway Vincentian Volunteer program ended. I finally had some time to breathe, to think about GVV, VLM, my experiences at St. John's, and pray about where the next step might take me. My experiences as a parent liaison showed me I had many skills to offer in working with adults - helping people achieve their goals as parents, as creators of organizations, as educators, as innovators, as Catholics. As I was contemplating how this might be manifested, I received an email from the director of VLM about the upcoming plans for 2011. Every year, this email is sent to all former members, and every year, I always smile and think about it as something "that was." There were always other plans in the summer, and I felt that my once-in-a-lifetime experiences in Ethiopia, my first gateway into true service, could never be surpassed or recreated. I thought of myself as an alumnus, and an avid supporter and promoter of the program.

This email was a little different. With three new sites in Kenya, VLM needed new coordinators to work with the volunteers at the various sites. I remembered my experiences of working with the site coordinator well - Jess, now the director of VLM, was the coordinator of my site in Bahir Dar. She was a great source of wisdom and strength for me during the journey, and has stayed a close friend in these years since. The coordinator works closely with the program, the Daughters at the location, and the volunteers, to keep things organized and running smoothly. They also prepare the volunteers for the experience, through help in the process of getting ready, leading reflections, and orientation. They travel with the volunteers to their location, and work with them every step of the way, answering questions, helping, and working as a liaison with the Daughters - the hands and feet of the director of VLM.

For the first time, this email didn't wash over me in a wave of nostalgia, fond memories, and a recommittment to the Vincentian charism. I felt as if I was being spoken to. Returning to Africa? Leading volunteers? These ideas sounded far-fetched, and yet, I once again felt that spark - a gentle prodding to pursue this idea.

With much prayer and discernment, on my own and with Evan, I finally decided to leave the decision in hands far wiser than my own - I felt God had opened this door, and the only way I could know if I was supposed to take this journey was to leave the choice to Him. I submitted an application for VLM 2011.

As with before, once that decision was made, the rest of life became a blur - Evan found a new job, and we moved to San Francisco. When I was told I had been accepted as a coordinator in early February, I was still unpacking!

While this story seems long-winded at best, it really is the prologue. God has called me to once again follow Him without reservation, and I am on a journey of discovery...